CycLe Of GiVe & TaKe

...Lo aNd BeHoLd...


Many a time family, friends, colleagues or even mere aquaintances tend to forget about the idea of 'give and take' that is embedded within any form of relationship. When someone loves you unconditionally and does all that is within his or her power to please you, just a simple gesture, a small word of acknowledgement will render that someone happy. Sadly enough, in any relationship, there comes a point in time where one starts to take the other for granted. " No matter what I do, no matter what I say, he or she will stay by my side through thick and thin." So a great takeaway would be to never take another for granted. Today you might hurt and harm that person who cares about you. But does that mean he or she will always be there to endure you? Treasure every moment with each and every person. The world is an unpredictable place. Try all that is within your prowess to never hurt people with a tongue that can be sharper at times when compared to the pen and sword.


Also, I think that it is crucial for people to evaluate whom they are speaking to and choose their words wisely in a conversation. If I know my best friend hates it when I crack defaming jokes, then I will try my best to not do so. Eventually, each and every relationship finds its foundation upon trust and understanding. Understanding in this case eventually leads to tolerance, you accept the person for all of his or her flaws. Unless in the utopian context, there is no such thing as a 100% compatability agreement between two different people. Tolerance, I re-iterate is key. Of course then tolerance requires patience. So it is really in the domain of the individual to use such principles as a guide to be happy in his or her daily life.


Lastly, I would just like to say that in the pursuit of happiness such as a guy looking for a girlfriend and vice-versa, human beings generally have a tendency to forsake or forget about the best of their friends. Those who were with them through thick and thin. To put it bluntly, many a time people lose interest in their old friends when new friends come into their lives. So one must always give equal credit and acknowledgement to everyone who has contributed to his or her life from time to time.


P.s. People who utilise friends for selfish purposes or only think of certain friends when they have some need are utterly disgusting....



...aNgeLs BrOuGhT mE HeRe...