JuDgEmEnT aNd mOviNg FriEnDsHiP

...Lo aNd BeHoLd...


Disclaimer: I am not attempting to judge people here. I'm going to make general statements that can be applicable to most people.


Usually when people are good friends with or extremely close to another individual, they tend to overlook or accomodate to their friends' flaws. This may happen to an extent that they eventually do not see the flaws (as deemed by themselves) anymore. However the moment that they become distant from the friend, they start to notice these 'flaws' again and have trouble mending the friendship. Flaws are a relative entity. I might find one attribute in a person a flaw but another might not find a flaw in the same person at all.


On a side note, I realize that as much as I like to surprise my friends with elaborate plans, I keep foiling my friends' plans to surprise me. On Saturday night, Kevin came over to my house at about 1++ am to share some food his friends had parcelled him from Japan. He called me on my phone numerously many times and even shouted my name through my window. However my phone wasn't with me and I wasn't able to answer the call. He was even barked at by my neighbour's dog. After waiting for nearly two hours he drove back home. When I found out the next morning I felt utterly guilty. He had warned me that he might drop by later and yet I fell asleep. It made me feel even more guilty to realize the fact that he was so forgiving about it. Kevin, thanks for being such a good brother... I owe you one.... :)


...aNgeLs BrOuGhT mE HeRe...